The myth that a family is incomplete without a child is one of the most prevalent in our society. However, the idea that two partners need to have children to create a family is completely wrong. In fact, this myth can have negative consequences for both the parents and the child.
Solid relationship and love make a family
One of the most important arguments against this myth is that partners must have a solid relationship and love each other in order to start a family. A child should not be a substitute for problems in their relationship or a lack of emotional connection between them. In addition, a child should be a conscious choice, based on the desire and possibilities of both partners to be parents.
Happy Parents Make Happy Kids: The Importance of Well-Being in the Childless Family
Another important argument is that happy parents make happy children. Children are very sensitive to the atmosphere in the family and feel any tension, agitation or upset of their parents. If the parents are unhappy or argue often, the child will sense this and may suffer as a result. Conversely, if the parents are happy and love each other, the child will feel this love and feel safe and protected.
The decision to have children: social pressure vs. the freedom to choose
The choice not to have children can be just as valid and respected. Every couple has the right to decide how they want to live their lives and organize their relationship. There is no one-size-fits-all recipe for being happy and fulfilled, and the social pressure to have children can create stress and discomfort in a couple's relationship.
Furthermore, having a child is not always a good choice for every couple. Some partners may have health or financial problems that prevent them from having a child. In these cases, the pressure from society to have a child can be very stressful and can negatively affect the relationship between the two partners.
However, we cannot ignore the fact that many people want to become parents and consider it an important aspect of their lives. For some, children can bring a sense of fulfillment and true purpose in life. We should look into our inner motives and make sure that we are ready to take on the responsibility of raising a child.
